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WHATEVER IT TAKES 1/7: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready: The move doesn’t need your mood’s permission. #MakingMovesMonday

April 20, 202628:44

Opening episode of a new series

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The opening episode of a new series, built around sports psychology consultant Trevor Moawad’s concept of “neutral thinking.” Dr. Suite argues that Mondays in particular tend to trap people in regret about the past or anxiety about the future, and uses Moawad’s framework to make the case that neither forced positive thinking nor negative thinking serves performance well — positive thinking can collapse when reality doesn’t cooperate, while negative thinking burns mental energy before any action even starts. The episode explains “neutral thinking” as a more durable alternative: assessing a situation accurately without the emotional charge of either optimism or pessimism, illustrated with a car-gear analogy for shifting out of “reverse” and into “drive.” It closes with four practical habits — releasing the past, asking a concrete behavioral question, reducing negative input, and paying attention to what one says out loud — along with a short three-step drill for getting neutral and taking the next action. This episode is relevant to anyone looking for a practical, Monday-specific framework for getting unstuck rather than relying on motivation alone.

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It's Monday  and the day becomes a decision point when we stop drifting into whatever the week hands us and choose the next move on purpose. This week we break down Trevor Moawad’s neutral thinking so we can act with clarity instead of chasing motivation or spiraling in emotion.

Suite Spots: • why Monday often traps us in past regret or future fear  • why “think positive” can collapse when reality hits  • why negative thinking burns fuel before action starts  • what neutral thinking is and why it works  • the car-gear analogy for moving from reverse to drive  • four practices: release the past, ask the behavior question, reduce negative input, watch what you say out loud  • a three-step drill to get neutral and take the next action

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#STAYAMAZING!

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